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Open Question: Why does he hate me so much if he pushed me away?
I dated a guy unofficially (i was never asked out on a real date, and stuff happened naturally) that was like my bff that i met here in college this year. We were so similar. Same morals and values, both loved video games and cars, we are both geeky, etc. (we are in college now, but in high school we were both the geeks---actually i was teased a lot for it in school--). But anyway, we just "fit". I really cared about him as a person. (we are 18 btw and finished our first year of college)
But he ended up pushing me away (when i asked him why we dont talk about "this stuff", meaning us dating, b/c i wasnt convinced he was attracted to me sexually) Even tho before he LOVED spending time withs me all the time and would follow me everywhere i went and everything. Neither of us had dated before so it was our first time dating.
what hurts is that he told me when we ended, which was on fb chat. "we dont have anything in common other than we are both from the west coast" i was shocked! We literally have everything in common. The stuff i mentioned above, our personalities and senses of humor were the same, same fave movies and tv shows, our birthdays are exactly a week apart, etc. we used to talk for hours and hours about everything.....
And hes like "im just not sure u. Are genuinely a "nice person". And i wanna have feelings for a genuine 'nice' girl"
I said "i am a nice girl, but you can think what you want"
And he said "i wanna feel that way, i just cant" then i said "this was a mistake" and he said "we can still be really good friends. Ive been just friends with girls ive liked my entire life, its no news to me. It all depends if u can handle it, cuz i can handle it just fine. Its only gonna be bad if u think it will be, and if so what are u gonna do about it?"
He never talked to me again even tho he's across the hall
But what hurts is that 10 days later, he sleeps over my best friends's dorm, and a two weeks after that, he goes after her friend, a very vicious cheerleader type girl who calls him a "creepy desperate stalker and an outsider who'd never fit in" and she is very mean in general. But YEAH, shes "genuinely nice" NOT!
What was his problem w/me? He used to treat me like his queen! Plus he was very passionate with kissing me and once he was grabbing me and being all forceful and aggresive and wouldnt let me out of his grasp (i loved this :) ). He'd always cuddle w/me and massage my feet and rub my back and look deeply into my eyes and kiss my cheeks softly. He'd also drop everything just for me and wanted to spend every second with me.Everyone thought we were in love. He made out with me like 30 times . (he initiated it, but it didnt seem like there was a sexual desire)
What happened? Why did he turn rude all the sudden? And why did he say i wasnt genuinely nice, when i truly truly cared about him as a person? I fell in love with him. Why did he go after that mean girl?
Why did he all the sudden cut contact like this? (hes blocked me on fb too and everything)
PS: we never had sex but he didnt want it anyway. He never asked nor tried and he had SOO many opportunities. We even fell asleep together everynight, and he didnt try anything, and he never ever got a hard on, even when i was touching and grinding on him and kissing very forcefully and moaning a bit. He was always super soft. ...so hes not "looking for sex". I cant picture him wanting sex. He's never expressed any interest in girls in a sexual way...even before we dated.....he's like a girl himself to me which was why i felt so close to him and comfortable.
Also i know he has 2 man crushes, and he said "that guy is HOT!" for three or 4 guys. Plus he hates the way guys talk about girls and he's digusted. Everyone thinks he's a pussy. Is he just gay? Does he know i know he's gay ? (i mean, thats why i tried talking to him about stuff before but he avoided)
Now hes just VERY VERY mean, wants nothing to do with me and acts like he hates me. He makes fun of me with my ex best friends and he has tried a lot of revengeful stuff like breaking into my room at 5am and stuff and when he 's with his friends he gives me dirty looks and goes "ugh!"
Lol a week after we ended, (before he blocked me on fb, i told him i felt like i was on bad terms with him. He responded: "you arent on bad terms with me fantasia"
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