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Open Question: Am I in a potentially emotionally abusive relationship?
My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year and a half and are expecting our first baby I'm 21 he is 24. I am 27 weeks, this was unexpected but we are very thrilled. Marriage was already in perspective for us before the baby. And he proposed to me 2months into my pregnancy the same day my mom went into a simple surgery and shockingly passes before we could surprise her with the good news. we thought it would be best since my moms death that we hold off on the wedding so everyone's mind could focus on funeral plans. This is the point in time where I thought he would be by my side more than anyone but sadly not. and he always had some kind of excuse like he had laundry or had to clean up the house or was tired from work. and when he would come it would be short. My friends even thought it strange that they were around more then he was for me. and I also brought this to his attention and he scolded me saying I am selfish and don't see the things he wants to do and get done and that how can I expect him to be the same person I want him to be if I don't let him do the things that make him, him. (he writes stories, plays video games, listens to music, surfs the web, watches movies, and always seems to have a pressing amount of laundry that has to get done). I don't force him to do anything he doesn't want to do if his heart isn't in it to do. because then he just makes me feel guilty for making him do something he has already expressed he doesn't want to do, but he will do it because that's what I want. like this valentines day he calls me the day of an says he didn't want to do anything because he is tired from work, and then calls me back an says that if I want to do something I should make the reservations. he knew I was looking forward to this day since it was our first one together. So I ended up making reservations to a restaurant and then he randomly tells me he is fine eating at Denny's after he knows reservations were already made at a nice Italian restaurant. He had already made it known that he really didn't want to be doing this by not getting me anything for valentines day and coming dressed in jeans and a shirt knowing already where we would be going. he made me feel silly for dressing up and getting him a gift as well.Then when we got to the resturant things seemed to get better and he was enjoying himself .. until I twirled a fork of spaghetti and offered it to him ( you know that cute gesture people do when they try to feed each other a fork of food? we did that often) and he said he didn't want it and he flung it out of his face before I had the chance to move it away from him. it went all over the table and he started scolding me on how I don't care about how he feels and I do things deliberately knowing he doesn't like it. mind you I was completely caught off by his reaction and started to cry and the only thing he did was look at me like I had something on my face and tell me my make-up was running ( in front of the whole restaurant without a flinch of care in his tone that he made his pregnant "fiance" cry in front of all these people and not care), by then I lost my appetite and asked to be taken home. and then on our way to the car he said, how do you think I feel? an then after that he exploded and started yelling at me and telling me every possible thing I have done or is doing wrong to ruin this relationship, and I sat there and held my tounge through many tears and took it until he started talking about my dead mother and I asked calmly how could you sit here and talk about my mom I just lost her! he replies that was 2 months ago! ( mind you he still cries over his mom and he lost her when he was 12! he is now 24 I'd expect alot more understanding from him on that. ) then he went on and he even brought up issues resolved and saying things that had nothing to do with anything and then after all of that he looked at me and said why are you still crying? and asked me then to tell him how I felt. I looked at him like he was crazy and said I have nothing to say just take me home. ( I honestly couldn't even process how all of this just exploded from a fork of spaghetti). The last episode after this occured when I asked him for his sisters phone number and address so my sister could send her an invitation to my baby shower that she is throwing for me, and he got so upset that I asked him this an said why ask him why not ask his dad or his grandparent's.(ok they speak fluent Spanish I don't speak any!). also he makes beautiful promises for the future saying things will be so much better when we are married and things that he will do for me. but he can't keep majority of promises he makes now to me. and his excuses for not following through is always lame and not good. he says i should understand he never has time for himself because he works 5 days a week 730am-530pm construction. and only get
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